How do you care for yourself when you are uncertain? Some lucky people don’t doubt themselves. But for the rest of us, we can sometimes privately tell ourselves an uncomfortable story about who we really are. Maybe we don’t want to hear this story, but we believe it anyway. For all sorts of reasons, we may feel not good enough, or wonder what is wrong with us. Doubt, self-blame, self-sabotage, anxious behaviour, and lack of confidence can come up. And we may struggle in our relationships to feel heard and valued. You can learn to support yourself through these feelings. Self-confidence arises in part from self-compassion. And self-compassion supports our resilience through difficult life experiences. Counselling can be a safe place to learn this skill, find new ways to appreciate yourself, and rediscover your confidence.

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