Be curious when you find yourself in conflict. When there’s conflict in a relationship, each person’s reactions are connected to their own life experiences and learned behaviors. Sometimes reactions in present-day conflicts are unconscious and more intense than what’s called for, because the situation has triggered old emotions and beliefs from past upsetting or traumatic experiences. Emotional wellness can be enhanced by methods like EFT/Tapping, which allows us to gently discover the root of why we react the way we do in certain situations and LET GO of the old emotional attachments, so we can be more peaceful in the present.