Relationships are so important! Hard, too, at times, especially in the relationships we have with those with whom we are closest. What makes a good relationship? While many may say things like “common interests and/or personality,” “chemistry” for intimate relationships, or a sense of humour, there are some that create more meaningful connections. These include an ability to stick with it through thick and thin (except when there is abuse), a willingness to be emotionally vulnerable, mutual respect, and a desire to deeply understand each other. Sometimes we get stuck and need a third party to help us turn our conflicts into a genuine connection.