There is an Ojibwe word used when someone shares their story authentically, “oxoconic” – the story of our bones. The essence of this word is sacred. I was told by the Elders that it is healthy to share our stories because they can help one stay in balance within themselves. Unfortunately, we are often too busy or too distracted to tell our story or we forget. Over time, these stories can build up and prevent us from having a voice at all. Sometimes we don’t know who to tell our story to because no one is listening. I encourage people to tell their story by writing it down or attending ceremony. Alternatively, find a trusting person who can bear witness to your story and see you in your sacredness beyond the story content.  The story is finished when the storyteller sees themselves as a valued and sacred part of creation.

Pamela Vialoux, Shabequay Healing
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